Ramadan Dia 19:

[akilanajmah]

Things have been busy and changing and all of that.

1. Went out to iftar with a bunch of Muslims who were, for the most part, around my age and progressive. I had a great time. InshAllah, they'll be friends. I think I may have found a lady buddy to kick it to masjid events with. Not to mention, amongst them was a un Latino del Caribe! Woo! My people! Was supposed to be at an iftar with them tonight but the notice was too short. InshAllah, next time. :)

2. I haven't fasted since Tuesday. What shocked me was how much my health had deterirorated from fasting-- the severe pain in my legs and knees (I could barely do salat) was from dehydration. I need to figure out a better way to keep my body up AND fast. Also, the lack of sleep messed me up too. Sadly though, I miss talking to Allah through salat. I usually make dua or just start praying in my own way, and I'm doing that but you miss it when you're cut out of your normal 5 times per day. It's weird. Part of me is desperately looking forward to my normal schedule-- running everyday, drinking as much water as I want, eating fruit and stuff... but IDK, part of me doesn't want Ramadan to end. I keep getting reminders that we're down to the last ten days. Hopefully on Tuesday I'll be back to it and feeling better. Lots of du'a to make. Lots of dhikr to do.

3.  A cool article about the difference between Islam as our Prophet (SAW) founded it and the way it's been handled since.

For Muslims, Ramadan is a month of fasting, purification, study and prayerful reflection. And after two weeks of prayerful reflection, I have concluded there is no tragedy that has befallen Islam and the Muslim people of the world greater than the derogation of Muslim women. Why?
Two reasons:

1. Because that abomination has made our communities, our faiths and our religion more vulnerable to catastrophe and less effective in meeting challenges for at least the last thousand years.
2. Because we did it to ourselves.

Every Muslim will tell you proudly how Islam began as the most egalitarian of religions. From the Quran's declaration of the equality of all persons (male and female, regardless of race, creed or gender) under God's (thankfully merciful) judgment, through Muhammad's own egalitarian practice, that message is consistent throughout. He even worked for his first wife Khadija as her employee, made the woman Umm Waraqah one of Islam's first imams and told his followers to learn half their religion from his youngest wife Aisha, for Heaven's sake! But let's all be honest for a change: Many Muslim men from the very beginning haven't been comfortable with the way Muhammad exalted women. Even Umar, our second Caliph, admitted he didn't like the way men's power over their wives was diminished. But when he tried to impose his own wishes −- by limiting the financial clout of Muslim brides -− one lone woman had the power to put him back in his place, by calling him back to the letter of the Quran's revelation and the example of Muhammad's exemplary Islam. Now it's obvious that didn't last. However, instead of learning from our mistakes, most Muslims (both men and women, strangely enough) prefer to gloss over the profound difference between our bright beginnings and the state of Islam today. Few Muslims will even admit to Umm Waraqah (and when they do they get bogged down in mechanical issues over her authority to lead prayer for men, women or family members, either from in front or behind), or the fact that more than a dozen of Islam's most honoured early leaders were women, including Aisha. Instead, for reasons that were primarily political, pertaining to the early disputes that began the Sunni-Shiite split, Aisha's age of marriage to Muhammad was artificially diminished from 18 to less than 10, taking her authority with it. And Muslim men -− perhaps jealous of the marital authority of their Christian and Jewish compatriots -− adopted interpretations of Quranic revelations that gave women half the worth of Muslim sisters who lived before them. They ignored verses proclaiming that God even made men the way we are solely to make it easier for us to provide for our families, preferring interpretations that confirmed the male right to beat their wives at their own discretion. Despite the fact that, at least while Muhammad was alive, everyone knows that right was taken away. No scholar worth his beard will deny these truths, even though most will quickly leap to defend those strange decisions that earlier scholars made. But the tragedy is this: Muslim men have been denied the wise council of Muslim women, when according to Allah that's something we need. According to the Quran, it's simple: to govern the world, our families and ourselves to the best of our abilities, men need women and women need men. Thank God that's finally beginning to change. To me one of the most interesting (and exciting) aspects of the "Arab Spring" has been the leadership structure, so different from the patriarchal systems previously in place. It's decentralized, lead visibly by women and similar to the earliest days of Islam. While others have noted the Arab Spring's longevity and focus, I know that wouldn't have surprised the first Muslims. Because Muslims then knew something that Muslims today are beginning to wake up to. The Muslim world is finally changing because Muslim women are waking up to the power and authority they really have under Muhammad's Islam.